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Here you will find a wealth of information about the Brit Milah (or Bris) ceremony for boys, and the Baby Naming (Simchat Bat or Zeved Habat) ceremony for girls. Much of this information is repeated in different ways throughout the web site. I hope it will give you a good sense about my philosophy and approach to these beautiful rituals.

NOTE: Beginning December 1, 2021, the Schedule of Fees is changing. My fees have remained the same for the past seven years. Costs have increased significantly during that time and even more so recently. A nominal $75.00 increase will be applied to all fees.

Covid-19 and Brisses: Update: 10/27/21

I had hoped that I was finished writing Covid updates, but that is not the case. With the resurgence of the Delta variant, I urge families to exercise greater caution.

I received my Covid booster shot on October 26, 2021. I am also up-to-date on all of my other vaccinations, as well.

Please contact me to perform your son's Bris. Do not opt for a hospital or doctor circumcision.

A number of parents are deciding to have their children circumcised in the hospital because of Covid concerns. They didn’t realize they could have a traditional Bris in their home without a party or gathering. Also, if there are concerns about Covid, the last place you want to have your baby circumcised is in the hospital. Besides taking up to 45 minutes to circumcise your baby while he is strapped down to a board, that’s where all of the Covid patients are and the doctors who are treating them. I strongly advise getting your baby out of the hospital as soon as possible and have a traditional Bris performed by me in the safety and comfort of your home. I am fully vaccinated. (See above)

I will leave it up to the parents regarding masks, gloves and social distancing as well as the number of guests that are invited or whether the Bris will be held indoors or outdoors. Brisses may be held outdoors weather permitting. If it is raining or snowing; too hot or too humid; too cold or too windy, then the Bris will be held indoors.

If I am required to wear a mask, then I will ask that everyone present also wear masks.

If the Bris has been scheduled and then someone tests positive for Covid, we will reschedule the Bris after they receive a negative Covid test and are out of quarantine.

IMPORTANT: Even though the Bris may be delayed a week or two, the baby will not be in any greater discomfort than if it had been performed on the eighth day.

All of the Honors at a Bris involve holding the baby. Some parents want to include friends or relatives who are not vaccinated, but they don’t want them holding the baby. They can walk in when the baby is brought in, stand by the Chair of Elijah or walk out when the baby is taken out at the end of the ceremony.

I believe that Zoom will remain a feature at all Brisses going forward as it will allow those who are far away or who cannot attend in person to be part of the simcha (happy occasion).

A minyan is not required for the Bris ceremony.

Have a traditional Bris performed by me. It would be the best decision you could make for your son or grandson. If you have the baby circumcised in the hospital or use a doctor-mohel, it may take up to 45 minutes and he will still need a Bris. That means a second procedure, a Hatafat Dam Brit, will be required to turn the doctor/hospital circumcision into a Bris. A Hatafat Dam Brit is the drawing of a drop of blood from the circumcision site. (**See below.) A Hebrew/Jewish name can only be given at a Bris.

I continue to perform Brisses throughout the entire New York tri-state area. As a traditional, Sabbath observant modern Orthodox Mohel, I perform Brisses for Jewish families of all backgrounds: Reform, Conservative, Reconstructionist, Orthodox, Ashkenazic, Sephardic, Interfaith, Alternative families, LGBTQ and Single parents. I introduce and explain the ceremony in a tasteful manner with the goal of making each event warm, meaningful and inclusive. The actual circumcision takes under twenty seconds. The ceremony is about 10 – 15 minutes in total. It is quick, gentle and compassionate with no advance preparation required. The Brisses that I perform are recognized by all the movements of Judaism and in Israel. I also perform Holistic Circumcisions for non-Jewish families.

If you are researching mohels and are thinking about using a non-traditional doctor-mohel or having a hospital circumcision, please let me know and I will send you additional information. This is a very important decision and parents should have as much information as possible to make a fully informed decision. A doctor-mohel or hospital circumcision can take anywhere from 10 to 45 minutes (!) with the baby strapped down to a board and then a second procedure will be required to make that operation a Bris. I don’t think most parents want that for their baby.

If your son was circumcised in the hospital or by a doctor-mohel, he can still have a Bris and be properly entered into the Covenant of Abraham. (See below.)

Conversely, if you want a beautiful, proper and kosher Bris, do not make arrangements with anyone on the Sabbath or a Jewish holiday. It will have significant negative ramifications Jewishly for your son or grandson.

My goal remains to continue to maximize the safety for everyone involved. I would like you to be confident in all of the steps I am taking when it comes to performing Brisses. My instruments are heat-steam sterilized in an autoclave. Everything else is disposable. I use a new, sterilized set for every Bris.

Also:

Make sure all the technology is set up in advance and everyone is online and ready to begin fifteen (15) minutes prior to the start time of the ceremony, especially the great-grandparents or anyone else who is technologically challenged. Set up “Admit All” or designate a co-host to admit people should they log on after the ceremony has begun. I also recommend recording the ceremony (except when the baby’s diaper is off) for future viewing. I am happy to begin a few minutes early if everyone is ready.

Parents—please read and review the Post-Care instructions before the Bris.

**For babies that were circumcised in the hospital or did not have a proper Bris performed by a certified rabbi or cantor mohel, a Hatafat Dam Bris ceremony can be performed to turn that circumcision into a Bris. It will be a complete ceremony including the Honors, the announcement of your son’s Hebrew/Jewish name followed by a festive meal. At the point in the ceremony where the circumcision would have taken place, the hatafat dam brit, the drawing of a drop of blood from the circumcision site, is performed. The discomfort to the baby is minimal and momentary. (He will probably cry more when his diaper comes off and his legs are held.) This will ensure that your son will have been properly entered into the Covenant of Abraham. Doing this will allow him to have a Bar Mitzvah or get married someday unimpeded. If your son decides to follow a more traditional Jewish path in life, this will also remove any obstacles. A certificate will be issued attesting that the requirements of the Bris have been fulfilled in accordance with Jewish law. It will be recognized by all the movements of Judaism and in Israel.

It is important to determine beforehand that the hospital or doctor circumcision was performed properly. I have had a number of families who wanted the Hatafat Dam Bris ceremony, but there was so much skin left that their babies did not look circumcised. They will have to be re-circumcised before they can have a Bris/Hatafat Dam Bris Ceremony.

Summary:

  • Have a proper, traditional Bris for your son performed by me. It will be quick, gentle, and compassionate and recognized by all the movements of Judaism and in Israel.
  • If you are looking into non-traditional doctor mohels or a hospital circumcision, please email and I will send you additional information. This is extremely important and parents should have as much information as possible to make a fully informed decision.
  • There is no such thing as a Bris without a circumcision. A bris without a circumcision is a naming ceremony.
  • Let us continue to remember those who have lost loved ones to Covid-19 and wish a speedy recovery to those who may still be suffering from the virus. We need to continue to express our gratitude to G-d, the first responders and all of the people who continue to help us.
  • If you belong to a mommy blog or any other group or know someone that might benefit from this posting about Covid-19 and Brisses, please share it with them.

If you would like information about Brisses, Baby Naming ceremonies for girls, availability and fees, please email me. I will send you additional information to help you prepare for those joyous events. If you had your baby, Mazel Tov! If you are expecting a baby, best wishes for an easy delivery and a beautiful, healthy baby. I look forward to seeing you at a simcha (happy occasion) soon!

Cantor Philip L. Sherman
Mohel

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